Friday, January 13, 2012

Things, they are a-changing…

This post has been a long time coming and I feel bad for not having taken the time to write it before but I just hadn’t found the words yet. I’m not even sure I have the right words right now but I’ll give it a try.

How cliché of me to do this in January, right? The month of resolutions, of New Year! New You! The month of being bombarded with phrases like: This Year I Will Do It! I Will Be Good! I Will Reach My Goals! I Will Give Up Sweets! Sugar Be Damned! But really, I started this blog in January - 4 years ago -and I guess it is just the best time to reflect, the best time to get things out in the open. Clean slate and all.


I could give you tons of excuses for my lack of presence in this little web space I call mine. But we all have those: kids, homework, holidays, family… Life in general gets in the way. So I won’t bore you with that. I will say however that I really do have a very short attention span and too many things at once, I cannot do. So the blog went on the backburner and I want to apologize for not at least giving you guys a heads up. I am very sorry about that. 


I haven’t been around the blogging world because I’ve just been trying to take care of myself. Cheesy? Maybe so, but it’s true. And I know it is said that to be accountable and reach your goals more easily, it is better to share said goals with others, to talk about them openly. But I’m not that kind of person. I like to keep things to myself. Things like how much I weigh. Or what I ate for breakfast. Or how long I exercised today, yesterday or the day before. Which is not to say that I don’t like to read blogs about health and fitness and other people’s goals because, I do. And I have been inspired by them. And I love to get feedback, comments and suggestions, who doesn’t? But I wasn’t about to turn this cooking/baking/all about food blog into a health blog because I’m not an expert at any of that stuff! I’m certainly not an expert at baking either but that just comes a bit easier, you know? And I just felt silly telling anyone about it. I mean, I was just trying to eat a little better, exercise a bit more, no biggie, right? But this lifestyle change/diet/regimen, call it what you will, kept getting a little more serious every day and I kept telling myself I would post something soon, I would take the time to “shoot” this healthy recipe I was making. But I just never found the time. I never made the time. I kept thinking “no one is going to want to read about this, it’s just silly”. But, almost 2 years into this silly lifestyle change, I’ve lost 60 pounds and that is nowhere near silly. That is big. And, although I still have a ways to go, I’m very proud of what I’ve accomplished.

A few months ago, I read this post from Kristen of Dine & Dish and she really got me thinking. (I think I have a blog crush on Kristen, she is just so inspiring!) I have evolved in the last 4 years, I’ve changed, but my blog hasn’t. Why should I keep writing the same way when I am not the same? Change is scary, that’s why. Would you guys keep clicking on over here if I changed my style? Would the posts without recipes attract as much people as the ones with a pic of a luscious [insert name of decadent dessert here]. I know you guys don’t come here to read about how I’m feeling today or what I did this past weekend. And I’m not sure I even want to write about that. I don’t know what I want to write about. But I know I want to write. I miss it. Writing. Sharing my thoughts, my images. I also miss talking about how delicious and sweet and over the top the last recipe I made was! Because, no, I’m not all about healthy and low-fat, I am definitely not going to post only healthy, low-calorie, “diet” foods. I’ve been pinning sweets like crazy over on Pinterest and I sure as heck am going to try a few of ‘em. This recipe is especially driving me nuts. I think what I want to go for is balance. A mix of healthy and decadent. More of a these-things-make-me-happy blog than just a food blog.


Wow. I think this is the longest post I’ve written. Ever. If you’ve made it this long, thank you. I hope I haven’t scared all of you into just unliking this blog on Facebook and running the other way. I would love it if you stick around. There will be recipes, stories and photos, just mixed in with some other stuff. Fun stuff I hope. Life.
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7 comments:

Lori said...

What a beautiful post, I thoroughly enjoyed reading every word. And what a magnificent achievement, your weight loss! I'll keep looking forward to your writing, whatever your topic, and want to support your intention to continue exploring the things that interest you here.

PheMom said...

It's like you tapped in to my brain. 4 years for me this month too and I couldn't have said this better. Different circumstances, same results. I will always continue to blog stalk you no matter what! You know how out of touch I've been and I'm just like you about holding stuff in while my world changes and wondering if I can still be relevant. I'm so proud of you and can't wait to see how you let things evolve for yourself.

xoxo,
Holly

grace said...

thank you for your honesty, lyb! i can totally appreciate all that you wrote, and i commend you for a)recognizing that a change was needed, and b)being brave enough to do something about it!

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Brilynn said...

Well done on your accomplishments! This post struck a chord with me as I realized that you kind of said exactly what I feel- I've changed over the last 5 years, but my blog hasn't. I'm trying to make a few of those changes now and incorporate more of what I'm doing into my blog. It means I'm posting much less frequently, but I miss writing when I don't do it, so I'm trying to keep it up anyways. Thanks for a great post!

megcjones said...

i think the best food blogs (i.e. my favorite food blogs) are more about how our love of food combines with our daily life. as much as i wish everything i did was as simple as the recipes i create, there's so much more than that out there, and there are many things that are also important to us as food bloggers. i really admire your honesty, and i think these new goals are wonderful - you're a beautiful writer and photographer, and will have readers no matter what you write about.

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I would say that it is an awesome food blog. I really appreciate your efforts.

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